Charly Boy Replies Pastor’s Adeboye On His Trending Marriage Advice TrendyVoice

5 August 2016

Charly Boy Replies Pastor’s Adeboye On His Trending Marriage Advice




Charly boy has reacted to comments
made by General Overseer of RCCG,
Pastor Adeboye on the issue of not
marrying a man who has no job or a
woman who can't cook or pray for one
hour.


He said this in a new article he titled'
Must You Marry?' Read below
For the past few days, pastor Adeboye's
advice to youths on marriage have
been trending all over the place. I
suspect that the good pastors yarns
tells me that he is a man suspended in
time, between old and new school.
Don't get it twisted, in as much as I
flow with his definition of a good
woman, from his statement I see that
the obvious way to his heart is through
his stomach and of cause through
prayers. Good, No wahala.


However our amiable pastor rubs it in
when he starts to yarn Akpata, " Marry
a warrior, if a girl cannot pray for one
hour, don't marry her. Don't marry a
girl who is lazy, who cannot cook. She
needs to know how to do chores and
cook because you cannot afford to eat
out at all times" Hummm na wa!
Really? Seriously?
So if my wife to be can't rant, chant,
shout and generally carry on as a
prayer warrior, praying for a whole
hour, the woman doesn't deserve a wife
status. Abi?


Oga pastor, that one na missyarn. Over
praying does not make one a better
husband or wife, because the world
especially Naija is filled with Fake
people and "Fakest" pastors. Does a
man having a job guarantee that he will
make a good husband? Does a woman
knowing how to cook guarantee she will
make a good wife? Haba.


Ok I get it, The Nigerian god has an ear
infection, so we must shout and pray
for hours because that's the only way
he may listen to our prayers, right? I
know that a man is suppose to marry a
helper and not a cook or a house girl.
By the way, is anything wrong with
encouraging your young male
congregation to learn how to cook and
do chores too.


"Do not marry a worldly lady" what the
heck does that mean? Is it about being
materialistic or just being fashionable,
looking nice. I guess in your book we
can't be a good Christian if we got
swagg and we are trendy. Judge not
pastor. We must all not look like Deeper
Life people to have a personal
relationship with God. By the way, if
you want to start writing your own
commandment you may as well write
your own version of the bible for your
congregation. Na una way.
Being married should never define a
man or a woman. Marriage in a few
years anyways, will be out of fashion.


Being married is only nice if we are
lucky to pick a partner who will be our
friend, if not, that maybe hell on earth.
All of us must not get married if our
threshold for nonsense and garbage is
low. The world is obviously changing
and we are no longer in the 60s. Who
wants to be suffering and smiling. Most
importantly marriage should not be a
milestone for anyone. Yes o.


Like I always say, it will take two to
tango. Marriage only works when
partners are determined to make it
work. It can never be a merit badge, or
a status for happiness. Many of us are
enslaved in our myopic mindset that
makes a mess out of what should really be a good friendship. So Oga pastor
Adeboye, watch your yarns because a
lot of people lookup to you, Biko. I don
talk my own.




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