Solution To HUSBAND SCARCITY. TrendyVoice

27 March 2016

Solution To HUSBAND SCARCITY.




This may not be the best time for me to write on this
because of misinterpretations, but I can't resist the
push. "Husband Scarcity" has become one of
challenges faced by many young girls today. If you
go to prayer houses, majority of the intentions are
prayer for life partner. And this calls for concern.

Casting our minds back to the time of our mothers
and grandmothers, was there really much of
a"husband Scarcity "problem? Or, maybe there were
more men than women then, or there was adequate
corresponding numbers of both genders. I don't think
so. Maybe then, the women had values and were
prepared to build a home and not park into a built
home. Then, once a young man comes of age and
and can at least feed himself and his wife, he goes
out in search of a wife and the woman really
appreciates him and helps him to build a future.
What am I really trying to say? They created what we
now see as "Husband Scarcity" themselves. Today,
the reverse is the case. Ask an average girl to define
her dream for husband ;you get things like "he has to
tall, handsome, fair, and rich, own a house at least,
and be presentable" and then she adds" God fearing
" in order not to sound so worldly. Then, check the
number of girls around you and the number of men
that meet that standard, and you will see the
problem. You hear girls say" I cannot suffer in my
father's house and then go and start suffering with a
man. What a wonderful dream! What if from the
beginning, you have everything you want and there
is no suffering and later in marriage, the table turns
around, then comes suffering, will you run away? No one prays for that but it's good to start small and
end big, than to start big and ends small. The problem is that the description majority of girls give
of their ideal man is virtually the same. When 50 girls
want the same kind of Man and the man that fits
what they want is just 1 man, and the man can only
pick one. Then, what becomes of 49 others? They simply start lamenting of "Husband Scarcity"..

Another irony of our time is that it is hard, due to the
face of our economy to find a man who is of marriage
age who possesses all those things these ladies want, legally (except those involved in Internet fraud); even the number of those in Internet fraud is
not enough to match all those searching for already
made husbands. If you look around, majority of the
ladies of substance, of good value and virtue, who are
ready to build a home with a man who has prospects,
are married and not complaining of husband scarcity.
The easiest way to find a husband now is to change
your views of who husband is. A husband is that man
God made and then saw that it may be hard for him
to really actualize his purpose for making him,
without a help mate and then made the woman and
gave to him, and he felt complete and fulfilled.
MARRIAGE IS NOT A POVERTY ALLEVIATION
PROGRAM. It is a mission of building the family of
God here on earth. For who see marriage as a way
out of poverty, it is a way into bondage. Women are
HOME BUILDERS, not HOME WARMERS... DON'T
CONFUSE A MAN'S PATH WITH HIS DESTINY. where
he is today may only be route to where God has
destined him to be tomorrow. Another truth is that
YOU MAY BE THE ONLY FAST MEANS TO THAT
DESTNATION. Join in alleviating "Husband Scarcity".

PICK UP THE RIGHT Values. I am not saying that you
should pick anyone that comes your way and talks of
marriage, not all men are husband materials. What I
am saying is that you should stop setting your
standard on material acquisitions or physical
appearances. Look beyond the physical. WHAT
MAKES A MAN WHO HE IS, IS NOT WHAT HE OWNS
OR HOW HE LOOKS, IT IS WHAT IS AND MADE UP OF.
And that which he is made of is, most times, not seen
with the physical eyes, only it's effects can be seen.
Marriage is a permanent thing. Whatever is seen is
temporal and that which is not seen is permanent.
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